Signs This Man Is Not For You

Although in this case we are talking about the man as a partner, these tips are also applicable to women and we should keep them in mind when starting a relationship.

Often, when we’re in love, we don’t pay attention to certain alarms, which can arise regarding the suitability of the person we’ve chosen.

So, in this article, we’re giving you some signs that maybe this man isn’t for you.

How do you know if this man is not for you?

First, it is essential that you be objective and try to identify whether one or several of the following situations seem familiar to you, or whether you live in your current relationship.

Perhaps these are the signs you need to look for, to identify that this man is not for you:

1. Are you interested in your money or your possessions

If you have a good job, a home of your own, a car or your family is rich, be careful because many men can act blinded by greed.

This does not mean that this happens in all cases, but you should pay attention, for example, if he asks you for money, if he always wants you to pay the bills, if he tries to convince you to put your property in your name, etc. …

2. Doesn’t get along with your pet

Animals are wise and most of the time they “get it right” when they don’t like someone.

If you took your boyfriend home and your dog resisted or tried to bite him; it may be normal because he doesn’t know you, but pay attention if this behavior is maintained over time.

Also, take a look at how your partner treats your pet. Maybe in front of you, he’s kind, but when you turn your back, he might mistreat you.

3. Don’t talk about the future

Couples talk about projects together, starting from a year of relationship, approximately.

Some may take longer and others less, but at some point these conversations come up related to marriage, having children, moving, etc…

If it’s been a while since you’ve been together, and he refuses to talk about these issues, maybe he’s hiding something. Maybe he doesn’t want to commit, or he could have another “serious” relationship and he’s cheating on you.

Also read: 7 manipulation strategies used by people who mistreat

4. Does not introduce your family or friends

At the beginning of a relationship, it’s normal for meetings to be just between the two of them, but after a while it’s time for “formal introductions” to family and friends.

If he doesn’t want to take you to Sunday lunches, at your parents’ house, or when he has a party, or never wants you to join him, you’ll have to suspect that this man isn’t for you.

As in the previous case, it could be because he doesn’t want formal relationships (and therefore doesn’t take you seriously) or that there is already a girlfriend “introduced to his social life”.

5. Rushes

This can also be a sign about the inconvenience of your relationship.

For example, if after two weeks you go out together, he says you have to move in together, plan the next vacation that will be in several months, wants you to meet your whole family, or talk about having kids with you, either very careful.

Anything rushed can be harmful, or a sign that you are facing an obsessive or a stalker.

6. You don’t know your tastes

It’s true that a lot of people don’t like to talk about themselves, but if the fourth date has passed, and you only know their name and a little more, you should be suspicious.

Especially if you ask him questions about where he works, who he lives with, or what his favorite food is, and he runs off or changes the subject.

7. It’s too far away

Woman arguing with a man who isn't for her

Maybe he has suffered a lot in a previous relationship, or he doesn’t like close contact with people.

However, if on many occasions he acts like he’s not there, or doesn’t pay attention to you to watch television, send a message, or do something else, it could mean that this man is not for you.

8. Talk about your ex all the time

You’ve been dating for several weeks now and on each date, all he does is refer to his ex-partner… that she liked such a thing, that they went to this restaurant for her birthday, that she never accompanied him to the movies …

On the one hand, this is annoying, and on the other hand, you should be concerned. If he still hasn’t managed to forget about his previous relationship, it’s very difficult for you to form a new one together.

Let him live in the past, and when he really has “rubbed off” in the previous relationship, maybe you can give him a chance.

9. Wants you to change

Although there is nothing written in stone, and we can all improve on certain issues, the bad thing about this person is that they want to shape everything you do to their liking.

He can tell you to cut or change the color of your hair, to dress as he wants, not to see certain friends, to look for another job, to stop thinking in a certain way…

In short, that you are a completely different person. And that, no doubt, is a sign that this man is not for you.